You may love her, you may hate her, but you cannot ignore her existence and contributions to the society in all different ways. Yes, we are talking of the balancing energy of the universe called- Woman. The Chinese Vastu Shastra- Feng Shui mentions of the attainment of the highest peace, pleasure and bliss when both the energies of the universe- Yin and Yang are in accordance. Yin, the female energy, thus is an equal harmonizing factor.
However, it is during the motherhood, that she blooms to her best. I bet, while we see aberrations at all stages of womanhood, no one would have seen a mother snatching food from her kid’s mouth, or buying herself something before overloading their kid’s kitties! According to me, the essence of womanhood is expressed when a woman is a lover or a mother:) The love only becomes grand when she turns a GRAND mother!
She cannot evade these feelings. However, she can learn to live and enjoy them healthily, eventually evolving to be more of a beautiful SOUL than a weaker GENDER! Societal mutations are offered to all of us in our lives. However, the response - fine tuning or burying the humane qualities is solely a personal choice! As I believe, it is ultimately an individual who picks the path he/she treads:)
Vanity is yet another integral aspect of woman. Moment she looks into the mirror, she travels the barriers of time lines experiencing a unique identity:) She has her own niche carved for herself, full of fantasies. The fantasies so real, that she can feed onto them during testing times and win over the situation.